The most important part of YOU DESERVE IT, and arguably the hardest, is the ability to take ownership for your current situation.
Your life is a result of choices you have made and action you have taken (or not taken).
You deserve your current situation because you are responsible for the things you cause to happen and your response to the things which happen to you.
If something has happened to you that you can’t influence then you don’t deserve it- and that’s an important point: read this.
Being responsible in this context means taking responsibility for a situation rather than “causing” it. In this same context, responsible means your ability to choose your response.
If you don’t like something, change it, if you can’t change it then change the way you think about it.
It’s all on you.